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Elise Loehnen

I'm the host of Pulling the Thread podcas, and the author of the New York Times Bestseller ON OUR BEST BEHAVIOR: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good (Dial Press/PRH). I read a lot and share what I learn.

Books From the Pulling the Thread Podcast
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In a Human Voice
Why Does Patriarchy Persist?
In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development
You Don't Have to Do It Alone: The Power of Friendship
The Happiest Baby on the Block: The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer (Revised, Updated)
Field Notes for the Wilderness: Practices for an Evolving Faith
Deep Secrets: Boys' Friendships and the Crisis of Connection
Rebels with a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves, and Our Culture
Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
Finding Radical Wholeness: The Integral Path to Unity, Growth, and Delight
Projections: The New Science of Human Emotion
What It Takes to Heal: How Transforming Ourselves Can Change the World
The Resilience Myth: New Thinking on Grit, Strength, and Growth After Trauma
My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies
Take Back Your Brain: How a Sexist Society Gets in Your Head--And How to Get It Out
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ON OUR BEST BEHAVIOR Bibliography
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The Dawn of Everything: A New History of Humanity
The Confessions: Saint Augustine of Hippo
The Praktikos & Chapters on Prayer: Volume 4
Evagrius of Pontus: Talking Back: A Monastic Handbook for Combating Demons
Dancing in the Flames: The Dark Goddess in the Transformation of Consciousness
A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "a Course in Miracles"
Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents
The Witches Are Coming
The Wisdom of Insecurity: A Message for an Age of Anxiety
Mary Magdalene Revealed: The First Apostle, Her Feminist Gospel & the Christianity We Haven't Tried Yet
Mary Magdalene: Women, the Church, and the Great Deception
The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life
Credible: Why We Doubt Accusers and Protect Abusers
Dilemmas of Desire: Teenage Girls Talk about Sexuality
Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion
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Books About Spirituality & Mysticism
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The Varieties of Religious Experience: A Study in Human Nature (Revised)
The Bond with the Beloved: The Mystical Relationship of the Lover & the Beloved
Beyond Belief: The Secret Gospel of Thomas
The Wisdom Jesus: Transforming Heart and Mind-A New Perspective on Christ and His Message
Hilma AF Klint: Paintings for the Future
Marguerite Porete: The Mirror of Simple Souls
The O Manuscript: The Scandinavian Bestseller
In Search of Being: The Fourth Way to Consciousness
In Search of the Miraculous: The Definitive Exploration of G. I. Gurdjieff's Mystical Thought and Universal View (Revised)
Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires
The Heart of Matter
New Seeds of Contemplation
The Seven Storey Mountain (Anniversary)
Peace is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life
The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us about the Good Life
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Books About Relationships
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Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
The Love Prescription: Seven Days to More Intimacy, Connection, and Joy
In Each Other's Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through Them
A Good Apology: Four Steps to Make Things Right
Can Love Last?: The Fate of Romance Over Time
The Dance of Intimacy: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships
Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships
Negotiating the Nonnegotiable: How to Resolve Your Most Emotionally Charged Conflicts
What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships
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Books About Dying, Death & Grief
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Kitchen Table Wisdom: Stories That Heal, 10th Anniversary Edition (Anniversary)
The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us about Living Fully
It's Okay to Laugh: (Crying Is Cool Too)
No Happy Endings: A Memoir
Why Religion?: A Personal Story
A Heart That Works
The Year of Magical Thinking: National Book Award Winner
Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
The End of Your Life Book Club: A Memoir
When Breath Becomes Air
The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying
For You When I Am Gone: Twelve Essential Questions to Tell a Life Story
No Cure for Being Human: (And Other Truths I Need to Hear)
Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I've Loved
A Grief Observed
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Books About Trauma & Healing
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Attuned: Practicing Interdependence to Heal Our Trauma--And Our World
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self
Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds
The Transformation: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma
What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies
I Don't Want to Talk about It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression
Trauma and Memory: Brain and Body in a Search for the Living Past: A Practical Guide for Understanding and Working with Traumatic Memory
Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma: The Innate Capacity to Transform Overwhelming Experiences
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
Internal Family Systems Therapy
No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
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Books About Addiction
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The Urge: Our History of Addiction
The Beyond Addiction Workbook for Family and Friends: Evidence-Based Skills to Help a Loved One Make Positive Change
Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change: A Guide for Families
Facing Codependence
Mother Noise: A Memoir
Beautiful Boy: A Father's Journey Through His Son's Addiction
Ninety Days: A Memoir of Recovery
Portrait of an Addict as a Young Man: A Memoir
Dry: A Memoir (Anniversary)
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In Pain: A Bioethicist's Personal Struggle with Opioids
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence
Quit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed with Alcohol
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Books About Early Christianity
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The Origin of Satan: How Christians Demonized Jews, Pagans, and Heretics
The Wisdom Jesus: Transforming Heart and Mind-A New Perspective on Christ and His Message
Beyond Belief: The Secret Gospel of Thomas
The Gnostic Gospels
The Apocryphal Gospels
The Rise and Fall of Adam and Eve
After Jesus Before Christianity: A Historical Exploration of the First Two Centuries of Jesus Movements
Constantine's Sword: The Church and the Jews--A History
Misquoting Jesus: The Story Behind Who Changed the Bible and Why
The Alphabet Versus the Goddess: The Conflict Between Word and Image
Jesus, Interrupted
The Meaning of Mary Magdalene: Discovering the Woman at the Heart of Christianity
Mary Magdalene: Women, the Church, and the Great Deception
The Gospel of Mary of Magdala
The Gospel of Mary Magdalene
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Books About Religion
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The Origin of Satan: How Christians Demonized Jews, Pagans, and Heretics
God: An Anatomy
Luther and Erasmus: Free Will and Salvation
The Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth
Muhammad, the World-Changer: An Intimate Portrait
After Jesus Before Christianity: A Historical Exploration of the First Two Centuries of Jesus Movements
Here All Along: Finding Meaning, Spirituality, and a Deeper Connection to Life--In Judaism (After Finally Choosing to Look There)
Jesus, Interrupted
Heaven and Hell: A History of the Afterlife
Misquoting Jesus: The Story Behind Who Changed the Bible and Why
Why Religion Matters: The Fate of the Human Spirit in an Age of Disbelief
The World's Religions
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Books About Mythology, Archetypes & Mystical Systems
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Hagitude: Reimagining the Second Half of Life
Meeting the Shadow on the Spiritual Path: The Dance of Darkness and Light in Our Search for Awakening (Edition, Revised of Meeting the Shadow of Spiri
Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature
Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
The Power of Myth
Understanding Human Design: The New Science of Astrology: Discover Who You Really Are
Ego and Archetype
The Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types
Personality Types: Using the Enneagram for Self-Discovery (Revised)
The Sacred Enneagram: Finding Your Unique Path to Spiritual Growth
Use Your Planets Wisely: Master Your Ultimate Cosmic Potential with Psychological Astrology
Envy and Gratitude (2002. Corr. 2nd)
Dancing in the Flames: The Dark Goddess in the Transformation of Consciousness
Memories, Dreams, Reflections (Revised)
The Uses of Enchantment: The Meaning and Importance of Fairy Tales
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