
The Other Side of Sadness
George A. Bonanno
(Author)Description
In this thoroughly revised and updated classic, a renowned psychologist shows that mourning is far from predictable, and all of us share a surprising ability to be resilient
The conventional view of grieving--encapsulated by the famous five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance--is defined by a mourning process that we can only hope to accept and endure.
In The Other Side of Sadness, psychologist and emotions expert George Bonanno argues otherwise. Our inborn emotions--anger and denial, but also relief and joy--help us deal effectively with loss. To expect or require only grief-stricken behavior from the bereaved does them harm. In fact, grieving goes beyond mere sadness, and it can actually deepen interpersonal connections and even lead to a new sense of meaning in life.
Product Details
Publisher | Basic Books |
Publish Date | November 05, 2019 |
Pages | 368 |
Language | English |
Type | |
EAN/UPC | 9781541699373 |
Dimensions | 8.2 X 5.4 X 1.1 inches | 0.6 pounds |
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Reviews
"The Other Side of Sadness paints a refreshingly new and scientifically-grounded portrait of the grieving process, one infused with positivity, laughter, and enduring bonds. Anyone interested in the emotional nuances of the human condition will value this warm, engaging, and accessible book."--Barbara L. Fredrickson, Ph.D., Kenan Distinguished Professor, University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill and author of Positivity
"A deep and intelligent book.... It's heartening to discover that grieving is not 'work, ' we don't have to be successful at it, and we're stronger than we know."--Double X, Slate
"Bonanno, the most productive and influential bereavement researcher in America today, has changed the scientific landscape in the field of grief and bereavement."--Camille Wortman, Professor of Psychology, Stony Brook University
"Brilliant and moving."--Dacher Keltner, professor of psychology, University of California, Berkeley, and author of Born to Be Good
"Fascinating and readable ... a sensitive and sensible view of loss."--New York Times
"George Bonanno's ground-breaking research on grief illuminates mankind's profound capacity for resilience, and shows us how to find meaning in life after death."--Jim Whitaker, Founder and Director Project Rebirth
"Perhaps the most renowned grief researcher in the United States ... Bonanno's work ... has redefined the science of grief research."--The Atlantic
"This is a valuable book for Bonanno's application of the scientific method to a field that badly needs it."--New Scientist
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