One of These Things First


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$24.95  $23.20
Delphinium Books
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5.6 X 8.3 X 0.9 inches | 0.8 pounds
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About the Author

STEVEN GAINES is the New York Times bestselling author of Philistines at the Hedgerow: Passion and Property in the Hamptons and The Love You Make: An Insiders Story of the Beatles (with Peter Brown). His journalism has appeared in Vanity Fair, the New York Times, and New York magazine, where he was a contributing editor for 12 years. Mr. Gaines is the co-founder and a past vice-chairman of the Hamptons International Film Festival. He has lived in Wainscott, a small hamlet on the East End of Long Island, for 40 years.


A poignant and funny book that proves it does get better.--Joy Behar, "The View"
"By turns comic, honest, and riveting, Gaines tells a story of a well-meaning shrink and his troubled charge locked in a war of wills to ease the 'trauma of homosexuality' and restore his humanity in a conservative world."--Publishers Weekly
"One of These Things First is not only a departure but an absolute treasure. [Gaines is] a skilled humorist as well as a tender yet trenchant observer of human behavior and the social forces that so often control it."--New York Times Book Review
"Funny and poignant."--New York Post
"A lyrical, dispassionate, humane story with a rich cast of characters . . . an absorbing, self-deprecating, deadpan humorous and painfully insightful memoir."--Sag Harbor Express
"Growing up gay in pre-trendy Brooklyn wasn't always a joyride, as I personally realized ages ago. But Steven Gaines knows it even better. His harrowing account of being a suicidal 15-year-old who checked into Payne Whitney is eye opening, touching and ultimately triumphant because of how well he turned out."--Michael Musto, columnist and author of Manhattan on the Rocks
"Years ago Dominick Dunne called Steven Gaines 'a born storyteller.' If anything, we now know Gaines was meant to write his own powerful, heart-wrenching, and funny life story. I could not put it down."--Steven Petrow, columnist, Washington Post
"This is a memoir for anyone who loves Paddy Chayefsky and Hanya Yanagihara. Steven Gaines has turned his considerable journalistic talents onto his younger self, writing a lyrical, wry and precisely excavated book which zaps you back to that moment when you first wonder, 'Is this really who I am? What does it mean to not be what I think I'm supposed to be? Can I change?'"--Carl Swanson, editor New York Magazine
A beautiful and heart-rending testament . Hard to imagine that in our lifetime we've seen such change in the attitudes toward young people. Gaines' irrepressible character comes through loud and clear. Leave it to him to find his way to Payne Whitney, the Harvard of mental joints and then come out of it with honors.--James Lescene, writer of the Academy-award winning short film, Trevor
PRAISE FOR Philistines at The Hedgerow: "Such a cast of eccentrics hasn't been seen since Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil."--Jay McInerney, The New Yorker
"Steven Gaines is a born storyteller..."--Dominick Dunne
"Breezy, irreverent, amusing...replete with scandal, scurrilous characters, assorted bacchanalia, and all manner of wretched excess."--Laura Landro, Wall Street Journal
PRAISE FOR The Sky's the Limit: "Juicy and highly detailed, the book has movie stars, fashion designers, illicit sex, and lots of connving and cavorting socialites--and it's all about real estate."--Lisa B. Anderson, Chicago Tribune
"A fun read flush with anecdotes."--Dan Ackman, Wall Street Journal
"Gaines skillfully unravels Manhattan's social fabric..."--New York Observer
PRAISE FOR Fool's Paradise: "A fun yarn about a bunch of charming scammers and swindlers with garish tastes..."--Miami Herald
"An entertaining chronicle"--Carl Hiaasen, cover of New York Times Book Review
"A gossipy social history of scandal and intrigue, Miami Style"--USA Today
"Throughout this addictive narrative, Gaines weaves a captivating history."--Publishers Weekly (starred review)
"A longtime journalist and artful chronicler of New York lives, Gaines's look back at his own is shocking, funny, and sometimes shockingly funny. A real treasure."--Nickolas Butler, internationally bestselling author of Shotgun Lovesongs and The Hearts of Men