Lifesaving for Beginners


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Red Hen Press
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5.0 X 0.5 X 8.0 inches | 0.5 pounds
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About the Author

Anne Edelstein has worked in the book publishing business for over 25 years, as an editor and then as a literary agent. She grew up in suburban New England as the eldest of three siblings. When she was 28 she lost her brother to suicide, and 15 years later her mother drowned at the age of 68. These two tragedies gave rise to Lifesaving for Beginners, which is her first book. She lives in New York with her husband, and spends part of each year in Barcelona. She enjoys drawing, reading, writing, and traveling, and is an avid swimmer.


"Anne Edelstein maps the tragic legacy of her brother's suicide and her mother's accidental death with grace and fortitude, shedding light on the darkest of secrets. In the quotidian domain of family life, she finds the simple poetry of love and forgiveness. Lifesaving for Beginners is a soaring tribute to the ties that bind us, what makes us whole as human beings."--Anne Landsman, author of The Devil's Chimney and The Rowing Lesson

"It is no surprise that 'Lifesaving for Beginners' is an deftly crafted, engagingly presented, intensely personal memoir that is a truly riveting read from beginning to end, and an especially and unreservedly recommended addition to both community and academic library Contemporary American Biography collections."--Midwest Book Review

"While dramatic events set this memoir in motion, the triumph of Lifesaving for Beginners is that its heart lies not in the large ruptures of life but in the reconciliations that arrive quietly and routinely. I admire--and envy--the writing in this book. Its smooth surface belies its depths, much like the open waters Edelstein swims in as she seeks her own calmness and consolation."--Kathleen Finneran, author of The Tender Land

"Anne Edelstein's remarkable debut is an unforgettable--and unputdownable--portrait of a singular American family. Reminiscent of Vivian Gornick's Fierce Attachments and Daphne Merkin's This Close to Happy, this slyly powerful memoir reads like a conversation with your kindest, funniest, most incisive friend. --Joanna Rakoff, author of My Salinger Year and A Fortunate Age

"Loss, grief, and 'the proof of love' are at stake in this poignant and penetrating memoir of a daughter's quest to understand her elusive mother, the suicide of her beloved brother, and the mystery at the heart of the will to live."--Jill Bialosky, author of History of a Suicide: My Sister's Unfinished life

"As if in the eye of a hurricane, Anne Edelstein writes courageously about the deaths that swirl about her. Calm, clear, moving and oh-so poignant, Lifesaving for Beginners is a breathtaking portrait of our fruitless efforts to shield each other from the most painful aspects of life. Her book points in another direction and it is indeed a lifesaver."--Mark Epstein, author of The Trauma of Everyday Life and Going to Pieces without Falling Apart

"In this stunningly eloquent memoir, Edelstein grieves for her mother's drowning to unearth an even deeper grief--the one for her brother who killed himself fifteen years before. In what can be the sometimes garrote of family (as well as its absolute joys) alongside a legacy of mental illness, Lifesaving for Beginners is a graceful GPS for finding your safe shore, no matter how distant it seems."--Caroline Leavitt, New York Times Bestselling author of Pictures of You and Cruel Beautiful World