A Primer for Forgetting: Getting Past the Past

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Picador USA
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5.3 X 8.1 X 1.0 inches | 0.75 pounds

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About the Author
Lewis Hyde is the author of Trickster Makes This World: Mischief, Myth, and Art and The Gift: Creativity and the Artist in the Modern World, as well as a book of poems, This Error Is the Sign of Love.

"Lewis Hyde's new book is so counterintuitive, so bracingly clear and fresh, that reading it is like leaping into a cold lake on a hot hike. It shocks the mind. It flushes all kinds of monotony and mental fatigue right out of your system . . . It is less argument than art . . . I can't tell you how many times I put it down to stare out the window. I can think of no higher praise." --Christian Wiman, The Wall Street Journal

"Poet-essayist Hyde celebrates forgetting as a force for creative potency, personal growth, and social justice, and in doing so reminds us of his talent for intellectual synthesis and his restless, contrarian spirit . . . in the way of Zen Buddhism, [A Primer for Forgetting] is an invitation to forget our very selves so that we might finally see the universe clearly. And alongside all of the bright-burning erudition, there is a very moving personal angle: his mother's progressive dementia and the prospect of his own." --Brendan Driscoll, Booklist (starred review)

"Erudite . . . Hyde roams freely in this book as he tracks down devotees of memory and those who would much rather forget. Both have left their marks and legacies upon history. We are beholden to this author for focusing our attention on their actions, thoughts, words, and deeds." --Mary Ann Brussat, Spirituality & Practice

"In A Primer for Forgetting, that bold yet gentle intellectual adventurer, Lewis Hyde, harrows the bottomless mysteries of memory and forgetting, trauma and recovery, amnesia and commemoration, reconciliation and forgiveness. If this deep, poignant, soulful, inquisitive, gently tragic and disarmingly erudite book were nine times longer, I would still have felt sad when I realized it was coming to an end." --Michael Chabon, author of Moonglow and Bookends

"Slavery, civil war, genocide--will the consequences of these horrors ever end? Could forgetting be a way to reconciliation? Lewis Hyde distinguishes between kinds of forgetting--one of which may lead to forgiveness and justice. In A Primer for Forgetting, he has given us yet another invaluable work that advances humanity." --Maxine Hong Kingston, author of The Fifth Book of Peace

"The sequence of Lewis Hyde's brilliant cultural interventions here reaches a new height, but also a new level of intimacy and compassion. The book feels not so much written as 'unforgotten' onto the page, out of our collective desire to rescue the world." --Jonathan Lethem, author of The Feral Detective and Motherless Brooklyn

"Compounding and crystalline, penetrating and multifaceted, these collected musings by Lewis Hyde, one of our country's greatest public thinkers, on one of both public and private life's most formidable conundrums: what to remember and what to forget, how why and when to make room for the future by authentically honoring and incorporating the past . . . but then letting go and moving on." --Lawrence Weschler, author of A Miracle, A Universe: Settling Accounts with Torturers and And How Are You, Doctor Sacks?: A Biographical Memoir of Oliver Sacks

"In this unforgettable rumination on the power of forgetting, Lewis Hyde offers us the gift of his most intimate reflections. Weaving vengeance, violence, regret, memory, prejudice, identity, forgiveness and transcendence into one entrancing whole, he points the way toward both outer and inner peace." --Mark Epstein, author of The Trauma of Everyday Life and Advice Not Given: A Guide to Getting Over Yourself

"A Primer for Forgetting is the most original and 'slantingly' (in Emily Dickinson's sense) profound book I've read in ages." --David Rieff, author of In Praise of Forgetting and The Reproach of Hunger

"A Primer for Forgetting is a brilliant, original, and provocative work that free associates like an intelligent and ultimately rational dream." --Dale Peterson, author of Jane Goodall: the Woman Who Redefined Man and The Ghosts of Gombe

"A Primer for Forgetting is essential reading for a nuanced understanding of how the complex of memory-and-oblivion might work together to create a more nimble world in our political present." --Ann Hamilton, artist