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Gideon the Ninth
Tamsyn Muir
$19.99 $18.59Lesbian necromancers in space! And on NPR's best books of 2019's list. Recommended by guest Elizabeth Gomez
Naked: On Sex, Work, and Other Burlesques
Fancy Feast
$18.99 $17.66In a book the Washington Post calls, "Sharp and revelatory," pod guest and author Fancy Feast recounts her observations while working as a burlesque artist, a clerk in a sex toy shop, and a phone sex operator.
Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto
Zachary Zane
$26.00 $24.18A bold and funny book by Men's Health columnist (and guest of show) Zac Zane
A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten: A Memoir
Tristan Taormino
$29.95Memoir by guest Tristan Taormino covering her emergence as a queer sex writer, educator and feminist pornographer.
Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (Revised)
Tristan Taormino
$22.95A groundbreaking book by guest Tristan Taormino.
The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships
Kathy Labriola
$19.95 $18.55Recommended by host Karen Yates and therapist Brandon Hunter-Haydon
Tarot for Change: Using the Cards for Self-Care, Acceptance, and Growth
Jessica Dore
$28.00 $26.04Recommended by art therapist and guest Alyse Ruriani as a guide for inner work using the Tarot.
Queer Tarot: An Inclusive Deck and Guidebook [With Book(s)]
Chess Needham and Ashley Molesso
$28.00 $26.04The deck used on our Tarot episode. LGBTQ+ inclusive.
Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home
Alex Alberto
$19.99 $18.59This collection of essays on polyamory by nonbinary author and guest Alex Alberto frames an expansive polyamory. Also endorsed by guest Molly Roden Winter.
The Art of Receiving and Giving
Betty Martin
$23.95Acclaimed sex coach Betty Martin shares her innovative system of touch that breaks habitual responses. Recommended by many somatic sex educators on the show!
More: A Memoir of Open Marriage
Molly Roden Winter
$28.00 $26.04"More" deftly walks readers through the ins and outs of an open marriage when one has children by pod guest Molly Winter.
Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step Into Your Most Authentic Self
Rae McDaniel
$29.00 $26.97Free yourself by living more authentically. From guest Rae McDaniel.
Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments
Lucie Fielding
$45.94Recommended by guest therapist Rae McDaniel.
In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family
Joellen Notte
$24.95 $23.20Guest JoEllen Notte's latest book on how to work with friends and intimates when having depression.
The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo
Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller
$19.95 $18.55Interviewed by host Karen Yates on the live Feb 2023 show, Beckett and Miller present a thorough and thoughtful guide to backdoor fun.
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Bessel Van Der Kolk
$19.00 $17.67Essential book on somatic trauma theory.
Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships
Kate Loree
$17.95 $16.69A highly recommended source of information about different styles of ethical nonmonogamy and how to work through issues in simple, easy-to-understand exercises.
Bad Sex: Truth, Pleasure, and an Unfinished Revolution
Nona Willis Aronowitz
$28.00 $26.04Teen Vogue columnist and interviewee Nona Willis Aronowitz's book that is part memoir, part sex-positive history lesson gives the reader much to ponder about modern sexuality and where feminism is today.
The Essential Ellen Willis
Ellen Willis
$24.95 $23.20Edited by interviewee Nona Willis Aronowitz, her mother Ellen Willis' writings on sexual politics and more offer deep insights.
The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren't Having
Joellen Notte
$19.95 $18.55Guest JoEllen Notte's important book on how to navigate sex with partners when you or they have depression.
Supporting Transgender Autistic Youth and Adults: A Guide for Professionals and Families
Finn V. Gratton
$41.34
Supporting Disabled People with Their Sexual Lives: A Clear Guide for Health and Social Care Professionals
Tuppy Owens
$41.34A groundbreaking book about how disabled folks can be better supported to have fulfilling sexual lives.
Creating Consent Culture: A Handbook for Educators
Marcia Baczynski and Erica Scott
$30.99Fantastic book with excellent exercises. Great for adults too.
Intimacy Educator: Teaching through Touch
Caffyn Jesse
$16.95Guest Caffyn Jesse's practical and important book on touching for healing and pleasure expansion.