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By Louise Julig

I love a good memoir, and some of my favorites have been written by some fierce-ass women. Here's a list to get you started, but check back periodically because I'll keep adding as I read more books. 

 

In 2023, any earnings from my shop will be donated to the Strong Hearted Native Women's Coalition in San Diego County.

 

Louise Julig (she/her/hers) is a creative nonfiction writer living in Southern California who writes Be Your Own Hero, a newsletter about being brave in small moments. Find her essays, performances and upcoming events at www.louisejulig.com.

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You Could Make This Place Beautiful: A Memoir

Maggie Smith 

$19.99

$18.59

This book is one of a growing number of fiercely honest interrogations of marriage and relationship that have come out in recent years, including Blow Your House Down, Foreverland, and American Honey. It’s incisive, bittersweet, and ultimately hopeful. I can’t recommend it enough.

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Blow Your House Down: A Story of Family, Feminism, and Treason

Gina Frangello 

$27.00

$25.11

This searing memoir unflinchingly examines the author's life as her marriage implodes, while at the same time situating herself in the greater context of women's place in contemporary society. Beautifully written and riveting.

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Negative Space

Lilly Dancyger 

$16.95

$15.76

A memoir of discovery based on the author's decades-long exploration of her artist-father's past in hopes of finding new ways to connect with his memory and legacy as an adult.

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Nerve: Adventures in the Science of Fear

Eva Holland 

$24.95

$23.20

Nerve is Eva Holland's quest to wrestle with her lifelong fears through both reportage and reflection. Seamlessly blending her personal experiences with fascinating science, Nerve will take you on a journey through fear and back.

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Smacked: A Story of White-Collar Ambition, Addiction, and Tragedy

Eilene Zimmerman 

$27.00

$25.11

Eilene Zimmerman's reported memoir pieces together the story of her lawyer ex-husband's secret descent into drug abuse while exposing the not-often-told story of upper class, white-collar addiction. Riveting and compelling

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Good Talk: A Memoir in Conversations

Mira Jacob 

$22.00

$20.46

In this graphic memoir, Jacob explores the messy bonds of family through the lens of growing up as a child of Indian immigrants in New Mexico in the 80s and being the mother of a biracial child in New York City in the 2010s. Includes portions of her (awkward, hilarious) experiences as a bisexual woman.

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Everything I'm Cracked Up to Be: A Rock & Roll Fairy Tale

Jen Trynin 

$21.99

Jen Trynin's memoir of becoming almost famous as a contemporary of Alanis Morissette is clear-eyed and eye-opening. It'll also make you nostalgic for the early '90s.

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At Home in the World

Joyce Maynard 

$22.00

$20.46

Joyce Maynard was vilified when she broke her silence about the relationship she had with J.D. Salinger when she was a teenager. But At Home In the World is a clear-eyed perspective from a quarter century afterward that claims her right to tell her story and show that she has a voice beyond the girl Salinger abandoned. Still worth reading today.

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The Recovering: Intoxication and Its Aftermath

Leslie Jamison 

$21.99

$20.45

In an interview with the Guardian, Jamison calls this "a big book: critical, reported, personal, all sorts of things," and it's an apt description. A memoir, yes, but also cultural criticism and reportage. She could have easily left out all the personal bits about her own recovery journey, but it wouldn't have been nearly the book that The Recovering is.

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Whip Smart: The True Story of a Secret Life

Melissa Febos 

$18.99

$17.66

This book covers the time from the author's junior year of college to midway through grad school when she worked as a professional dominatrix in a midtown Manhattan dungeon. She was also, for at least half that time, a high-functioning heroin addict. It is not only a fascinating insider’s look at a hidden subculture, but also a keen interrogation of the ways we so often lie to ourselves and the freedom that comes from finally seeing the truth.

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In the Dream House: A Memoir

Carmen Maria Machado 

$18.00

$16.74

Carmen Maria Machado's swirling, experimental forms lead the reader through this memoir of relationship abuse survival and emotional redemption.

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The Rules Do Not Apply: A Memoir

Ariel Levy 

$19.00

$17.67

One of my favorite memoirs ever. Beautifully written narrative of what it feels like when life just doesn't end up the way you thought it would. Expanded from the award-winning essay, Thanksgiving in Mongolia.

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Being Heumann: An Unrepentant Memoir of a Disability Rights Activist

Kristen Joiner, 

Judith Heumann 

$16.99

$15.80

Heumann contracted polio as a toddler and grew up disabled in the '50s to then go on to become a leading disability rights advocate. This book was a real eye-opener as to what people with disabilities have had to fight for since then. A quick, engaging read.

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Cherry

Mary Karr 

$18.00

$16.74

The lesser-known middle memoir by the author of The Liar's Club and Lit, Cherry covers the coming of age of one of the fiercest memoirists in the canon.

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Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic

Alison Bechdel 

$18.99

$17.66

The now-classic graphic memoir that went on to become a hit broadway show. Bechdel explores the relationship with her troubled, closeted father after his suicide while reflecting on her own lesbian coming of age.

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Pastrix: The Cranky, Beautiful Faith of a Sinner & Saint

Nadia Bolz-Weber 

$18.99

$17.66

Pastrix is the story of nontraditional Lutheran minister Nadia Bolz-Weber's journey from her fundamentalist upbringing through addiction and stand-up comedy to ministry as a "deeply faithful, deeply flawed" pastor.

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Infidel

Ayaan Hirsi Ali 

$19.99

$18.59

Aayan Hirsi Ali's clear, urgent prose takes the reader on a journey from growing up in the restrictive Somali culture subject to genital mutilation, through Saudi Arabia, Ethiopia, Kenya, and eventually to the Netherlands where she became an outspoken political figure, her voice gaining clarity and urgency along the way.

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My (Underground) American Dream: My True Story as an Undocumented Immigrant Who Became a Wall Street Executive

Julissa Arce 

$17.99

$16.73

Julissa Arce documents what it's like to grow up undocumented and ambitious, both longing and afraid to be seen. Her story exposes the arbitrary boundaries we draw in American culture around who is deemed worthy.

Louise Julig (she/her/hers) is a creative nonfiction writer living in Southern California who writes Be Your Own Hero, a newsletter about being brave in small moments. Find her essays, performances and upcoming events at www.louisejulig.com.