Relationship Tools for Positive Change gives the reader practical, effective methods to successfully work with problems and issues that come up in love. It offers powerful tools to keep happiness and passion alive through the inevitable tests of time. All relationships run into rough spots. Every couple encounters challenging dilemmas and obstacles. Lasting love requires us to keep growing and to learn how to keep a relationship strong as we resolve problems, issues and upsets. Today's high rate of dissatisfaction and divorce shows that most of us have not been taught effective tools to do this. This book offers powerful ways to turn relationship problems into opportunities for positive growth. Within any problem are seeds for change that can transform and enliven a couple's capacity for joy and happiness. Unfortunately, most of us have no idea how to break through apparent barriers that block love. In order to create positive change, we must know how to do things differently. Do the same old thing, and you only get the same old results. This book presents step-by-step methods to communicate effectively, resolve issues, transform upset feelings, reach mutual understanding, and create a resilient, healthy, happy partnership. The tools presented in this book go far beyond the communication techniques given in couples therapy. You will learn to overcome the underlying emotional upsets that distort communication. You will discover how to stay at your level best under all circumstances. Gain tools to strengthen a relationship even in the face of challenges or upset. Find out what most people don't know-how to work on a relationship in a way that gets positive results, and that keeps love, good feelings and passion alive. The author, John Grey, Ph.D. is a relationship coach. For over 20 years he has given people practical, effective help to create great relationships. Over this time he has discovered what works - and what doesn't - to support lasting love. This book offers the reader the tools John teaches clients to successfully resolve issues and create the relationships they truly want.