Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) Third Edition: Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts

Carol Tavris (Author) Elliot Aronson (Author)
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Description

Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell?

Renowned social psychologists Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson take a compelling look into how the brain is wired for self-justification. When we make mistakes, we must calm the cognitive dissonance that jars our feelings of self-worth. And so we create fictions that absolve us of responsibility, restoring our belief that we are smart, moral, and right--a belief that often keeps us on a course that is dumb, immoral, and wrong.

Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception--how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.

Product Details

Price
$39.99  $35.99
Publisher
Hmh Audio
Publish Date
April 28, 2020
Pages
464
Dimensions
5.8 X 1.1 X 5.6 inches | 0.55 pounds
Language
English
Type
Compact Disc
EAN/UPC
9780358345336

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About the Author

CAROL TAVRIS is a social psychologist and author of Anger and The Mismeasure of Woman. She has written for the Los Angeles Times, the New York Times, Scientific American, and many other publications. She lives in Los Angeles. ELLIOT ARONSON is a social psychologist and author of The Social Animal. The recipient of many awards for teaching, scientific research, writing, and contributions to society, he is a professor emeritus at the University of California, Santa Cruz.

Reviews

Witty, provocative, and impressively documented, this work lights a candle in cursed darkness.-- "LOS ANGELES TIMES "
A rare gem of a book, easy to read but also scientifically sophisticated.-- "CONTEMPORARY SOCIOLOGY"

"Every page sparkles with sharp insight and keen observation. Mistakes were made--but not in this book!"

-- " Daniel Gilbert, author of Stumbling on Happiness"

"Entertaining, illuminating, and--when you recognize yourself in the stories it tells--mortifying."

-- "Wall Street Journal"

"A revelatory study of how lovers, lawyers, doctors, politicians--and all of us--pull the wool over our own eyes... Reading it, we recognize the behavior of our leaders, our loved ones, and--if we're honest--ourselves, and some of the more perplexing mysteries of human nature begin to seem a little clearer."

-- "O, The Oprah Magazine"